As our kids enter middle-school, finding activities to keep them busy becomes increasingly important. Activities allow for children to explore interests and hobbies, develop social skills, and in a good program, learn critical independent skills in a safe and monitored environment. While most parents are concerned about the safety of their children, and may think monitoring their kids as much as possible is best, keeping them home after school may not be the best option. There are some advantages to letting middle school kids participate in clubs and sport teams after school.
One of the main benefits of an after school program is that your children will learn how to interact with their peers – children their one age in a comfortable and monitored school setting. With adult or teenage monitors, these programs can be a great way for kids with different backgrounds to get together and develop a new skill or hobby.
By learning a new skill or hobby and meeting a broader range of social acquaintances, your middle-school child will boost their confidence and self-esteem. Excelling at a sport, or a creative hobby, or simply being a key player in an after school project will teach your child she can accomplish anything, even if it seems difficult. And when your child is self-confident then this will sill over into other aspects of her life – like school work. This can be an effective tool in teaching her the value of goal setting and learning how to achieve things without being pushed.
Another great benefit of afterschool programs for middle-schoolers are the health benefits. After school programs are inherently more active than watching TV or playing video games. More physical activities for kids will allow them to get a better night’s sleep, and may help prevent obesity.
You can contact your local government or school for a listing of afterschool programs in your area and discuss the options with your child to see what may appeal the most to her – not every girl is into sports, so don’t be push her towards one thing based on your own preferences – any organized after school activity provides great esteem benefits to your daughter.